Village Life

We’ve now been out in our house in the village for two weeks so I thought I’d share some of the highlights;

As usual with a move, I’ve spent the last two weeks looking and looking through boxes and never finding what I need at the time – on the first night after moving out here a good friend thoughtfully cooked us dinner and I found some plates to eat off but couldn’t find any spoons – after a while I stumbled upon three teaspoons so we ate our rice and beans off our little kids plastic table, sitting on camping chairs with teaspoons. Dinner took a lot longer than usual!

The rainy season has started out here, very late but very appreciated and we have been housebound on several occasions as our roads turn to sticky mud once the water gets flowing. We put out all our buckets and basins catching the rainwater and it’s very satisfying using this water and conserving our bought tank water! Later on we’ll set up guttering for our house and a large underground tank and we’re expecting to catch lots of water off our roof – hopefully enough to see us through the dry seasons without having to transport water.

With the rains starting I had to walk the 3km to work in the mud on three days – but I am finding the walk quite a social event as many other workers live out in our area and I’m bound to run into at least one and chat to them as we slip and slide along the road.

I made a bad decision the other morning when heading early into work to walk in the morning with a friend – I thought the mud had dried out enough to ride my bicycle but halfway there the front tyre was completely seized up with a thick layer of mud between the tyre and mudguard! Luckily a Mama friend of mine was behind me and she just took my bicycle, hoisted it up onto her head and walked with me through the worst of it and then we took sticks to try and dig out the mud before I was able to continue along on my way – arriving late and quite muddy but we still got to walk and I carried my bicycle in various places on the way home. Lesson well learned – bicycles and our mud don’t mix.

We slept the first night out here without our front doors on, quite a windy night and nobody slept well. The next day the doors were on and the house was much quieter but there is still a man-sized gap between the top of the walls and the start of our iron sheeting roof which is fairly easy to climb over. Due to this Gody and I often patrol the house in the early hours of the morning when we hear loud noises – he taking up his crowbar and I our machete, checking around with our little hand-held solar lights. I don’t know what I’d do with the machete if we actually had someone in our house but I feel the need to at least carry something! We’re working on getting bricks put into this space and hopefully the process will be finished during this coming week so we can sleep a little more soundly.

We’ve killed four rats so far that came into our house to shelter from the rain and also sample our food – perhaps they are one of the reasons we are often hearing noises at night. I’m told snakes soon follow where the rats go so we’re planning on finding a cat to help solve this problem before I stumble onto a snake in amongst our food boxes.

A stray dog has adopted us, a skinny thing with only one eye from day one here it just decided that it would hang around and try it’s best to appeal to our compassionate sides. He has been affectionately named "Flat Stanley". We also have four goats that enjoy coming and eating the trees we planted along our boundaries. This has made for many a day of chasing them off our property, and Gody’s younger brother and I spent an unsuccessful hour trying to catch at least one of them – apparently once caught you wait for the owner to come and claim the goat and ask for payment for the many trees they have destroyed. A friend of ours has been keeping two sheep in with his chickens for over a month as the owner is too scared to go and claim them!

On Friday night we woke up to hear voices just outside our house, getting the machete and crowbar as usual we looked out the window to see a group of local Masai neighbours beating one man with a stick – apparently there was a circumcision ceremony the next day and all the men of a certain age are required to spend the night together singing, dancing and preparing the younger boys who will be circumcised early in the morning. When they discover someone hasn’t turned up they go to his house, drag him outside and give him a few whacks with a stick then he joins the group and they move onto the next recalcitrant’s house. Needless to say we went back to bed feeling quite safe with all those Masai patrolling the village and very thankful that Gody is not a Masai and could get a good sleep!

Our off-the-grid appliances have been getting a good workout – the washing machine is working really well (and I am happy because I am hopeless at hand washing large amounts of clothes!) and the terracotta pot fridge can keep vegetables fresh for around a week if I remember to water it about twice a day. I was also really thankful this week to be able to buy a gas oven as squatting next to our little camping gas cooker was getting harder and harder with my growing belly – now I can stand up to cook and have more options than one pot dishes.

 

With each day we spend out here we are so thankful to God who blessed us with this land, our duka (shop) business and our house. Even though life is very different living in an unfinished house without many of the usual basics (for us westerners anyway) – running water, electricity and all the appliances it brings, I often sit and take time out to gaze at the beautiful sunset and reflect on where God has brought me over the past four years. Gody and I eagerly look forward to what God has in store for us out here in the future and at the moment are clearly seeing his provision each day and can thank Him for all the small and large steps we take along the way.

Which Would You Choose??

Written Before Moving House:

I duck out of our local duka (shop) and head down the path to our ‘toilet’, struggle with the plastic sheeting that is flapping about in the wind I finally give up and let myself be exposed to the cows lazily grazing in the field, the dried out stalks of maize and hope not to be spotted by a potential customer coming walking along the road. Gazing longingly at our house across the other side of the paddock with it’s solid brick walls I look forward to the day when I can go to the bathroom and know that a gust of wind won’t reveal me wrestling with my kanga (a large piece of wraparound cloth) with which Tanzanian women have perfected the art of covering themselves when doing their business but I can hardly seem to coordinate all that is required. I am very thankful however for the compassionate person who has tightly woven maize stalks around the walls as last week it wasn’t just the door that was exposing me to the village but the plastic sheeting walls that had ripped in all the wrong places!

Gody is sceptical about the simple composting toilet that I have been planning for use in our house as water will be a scarce commodity and we certainly don’t want to see the precious resource flushed away 5L or more at a time. Consisting of a simple design including a bucket and wooden box with a seat this toilet will serve to save water, provide eventual compost for gardens (perhaps not the veggies!) and scare away guests. Most Tanzanians don’t like the thought of sitting on a toilet seat that others have touched let alone a bucket right on top of what others have provided! But if they are so inclined we can offer the choice of walking across the field and taking their chances with our other more exposed option.

After Moving House:

When we moved Gody’s plan was still to use the toilet across the paddock next to our duka…the one that regularly exposes one to the village. I knew after the first day of all that walking back and forth and the struggle at night to hold it in that he would give in pretty soon and test out the composting option.

It took only 2 days before he rang me at work to tell me I could expect a new indoor toilet when I got home…it’s pretty crude, just a roughly cut wooden seat on top of a 60L bucket but it does the job, doesn’t smell and Gody is actually pretty proud of it! We don’t have a designated room for it yet though as plans were for a proper pit toilet outside for guests to use and only we would have to use the composting version in our ensuite bathroom. Right now the guest bathroom seems more of a long term plan so all get to try out our large compost version in our open laundry room! We have to announce when to not pass by so nobody gets a scare.

Ten Unconventional Ways to Live Like an African Missionary

After reading the article titled ‘10 Unconventional Habits to Live Distraction-Less’ on a website about becoming minimalist (http://www.becomingminimalist.com/distraction-less/)  I thought I’d write my own based on my experiences living here in Tanzania as a missionary.

Ten Unconventional Ways to Live Like an African Missionary

1. Dump your smart phone in the bin and go out and buy the cheapest model nokia you can find – no colour screen or music capabilities allowed. Only check it if you get a call or message or need to check the time.

2. Connect with the slowest dial-up internet connection around. Check your emails only one per day or every two days as you cannot handle how long it takes! Facebook once a week, or month. Don’t even consider youtube as it will take far too long to download even the shortest clip.

3. Live ‘from scratch’. Bake bread from scratch, cook without using anything that comes from a packet or can, experiment with other things that can be made from scratch like yoghurt, cous cous (yes really, I’ve done it), hummus etc.

4. Turn off your electricity at the mains once a week for at least 8hrs at a time, preferably at night. Invest in a few solar lamps or better yet candles to eat your dinner by. Then when really game, turn off the power for 3 days straight – best done over a weekend for the full effect.

5. Put your TV in a closet for 6mths to a year. Go out and visit neighbours in the evening hours instead and if you really feel the need for entertainment watch a DVD on your laptop and invite those neighbours around too.

6. Shop exclusively in second hand clothing stores. Don’t buy anything worth more than $5 and limit your shopping to once every 3 months. Make sure your wardrobe mainly consists of knee-length skirts/trousers for guys and simple t-shirts.

7. Once every three months turn off your running water and find an alternative source outside your house. Invest in some buckets to help you collect and store the water. Keep the water switched off for at least 2 days.

8. Leave the car at home and ride the bus, but make sure you sit as close as possible to someone and even think about offering the remaining space beside you to the next person who hops on.

9. Leave your bank cards in a drawer and live on cash only. Hoard your change in a jar and use it when you ride the bus.

10. Give the washing machine a break and put your newly purchased buckets to good use by hand-washing all your clothes only once a week. If you can find an African neighbour to teach you the proper way to do this even better, although they may be horrified at your attempts and end up doing all your washing for you. It seems to be a skill that only Africans possess no matter how hard others try to learn it.

In a few short weeks my husband Gody and I plan on moving out to our new house. We’re working towards making it liveable in the coming weeks which includes putting in windows and some form of a kitchen bench and smoothing down the concrete floors. We’re both really excited to see this dream of ours taking shape and are truly blessed to have had the opportunity to buy land out in a nearby Masai village and build a house.

I’m very much looking forward to the challenges that will come with living in an unfinished house – we won’t have any power or running water and have only one piece of furniture to move – our bed! But it will be fun to live completely minimalist and rely on some of the inventions my friends and I have made over the years. My fridge will be two clay pots (one inside the other with sand in-between) which I will have to water down each day and my washing machine is a small plastic barrel with a handle to turn it and agitate the clothes. I plan on turning the fridge off over the coming week to see how well the pots can handle milk and other things that spoil quickly, just so I know what I’m in for. Here are a few pics of our land and house.

The first thing on the agenda was to plant trees circling our property as there wasn't even a stick of vegetation on the land when we bought it.

Our newly planted maize which has now been harvested.

The view of Mt Kilimanjaro on a clear day from our property. Can't wait to sit on our verandah and gaze at it.

The house taking shape...

As it stands now, waiting for windows to be put in.

Take the Shackles off my Feet so I can DANCE!!

Last weekend Gody and I went along to a local music album launch. The album being launched was by one of my ex-students who is now a teacher at our primary school. Sometimes I end up wondering whether any of our students actually have aspirations to be a teacher or if it is like a secondary pursuit for them in the background while they really secretly want to be singers, actors or anything more glamorous than a teacher.

We were over an hour late (arriving while I battled my internal “be on time!” clock which was chiming loudly even after living in the land of lateness for over 3 years), finding that they had only just started the praise and worship session before various budding musicians got up to have their five minutes of fame. I just love being at these events as they remind me how unself-conscious Tanzanians can be when there is music around and they just want to dance. All the singers had impressive moves and once their turn was over many of them were inspired by the next act and ran back up to join them on stage, imitating their dance moves and sometimes providing back-up vocals much to the delight of the lone singer. There was one middle aged man who, when his turn came up, couldn’t contain his excitement and flung his shoes off into the crowd before launching into his song and dance routine.

Another tradition for these events is that the crowd, once fully amped, dances up one by one onto the stage and stuffs some money into the pocket or hand of the current singer. It doesn’t end there as you find yourself joining the back-up dancers and vocalists and it’s not uncommon for large ladies in mumu style dresses to rival the late M.Jackson as they shimmy and shake their way across the stage.

It took over two hours before the main act came on-stage but when he did he impressed us all by combining his singing talent with some acting – dressed up as a homeless person he cried real tears during his song of sorrow and hope found in Jesus.

The biggest surprise of the day was that the MC repeatedly announced that Gody and I were part of a group of honoured guests who were expected to sit up the front at a special table. Along with a few others we quietly refused to leave our comfortably anonymous positions but towards the end were called up rather forcibly to cut the ribbon on the new CD and announce our monetary contribution of support. This common practice grates at me as the MC then goes around everyone in the audience and asks them to also announce their contribution in front of everyone – those with significant enough contributions receive a clap and those less fortunate suffer embarrassed silence. On the other hand, Gody later said that it is a blessing for us to be able to support the work of this musician and allow him to continue in his work, although I hope he doesn’t give up his day job anytime soon as he’s also a great teacher!

On Being Socialised

 On Being Socialised

One of the great privileges of having lived here semi long-term is that I am able to be involved in the lives of my Tanzanian friends in such an everyday authentic way. The other weekend I visited a friend's family in the morning and was set to work cooking chapatti (flat bread) over an open fire in their mud walled kitchen while my friend looked after her young baby and did the clothes washing by hand. 

Since Tanzanians on the whole have an extremely hospitable culture where guests are a huge blessing and are not allowed to do any form of work I loved the feeling that I was not an honoured guest anymore in this house but a normal part of the furniture, so much so that they would put me to work! 

It really struck me as I was working through the topic of Sociology with my student teachers and we came across the idea of 'socialisation'. It surprised me that this is what has happened to me. The definition that we read was that socialisation is a process by which somebody learns to behave in a way that is acceptable in that society. Hang on, I thought, I have been and am still being socialised into Tanzanian culture! 

There are many small cultural norms that are easily picked up early on like eating with your right hand, using a spoon for every meal that doesn't require actually eating with your hands, wearing skirts that cover your knees, greeting everyone who passes by on the way to anywhere and calling up friends just to greet them without any other agenda. Also high on the list are trying not to look the least surprised when on a crowded bus a chicken suddenly appears at your feet or a goat cries out loudly as you fly over a speed hump and learning how to show hospitality to everyone who happens to turn up at your door at even the most inopportune times (and serve them tea). 

I am still learning more subtle secrets of this culture and ways of doing things and sometimes it can be frustrating to realise that I will never completely fit in. White skin will always be white and stick out, prompting young children in most areas (and some adults) to call out "Mzungu!!" (foreigner) which can be cute and affirming if you are here on a holiday but gets in a way to be degrading when you feel like Tanzania is and will be your home long-term. This is why I think I treasure those experiences of being treated as part of someone's family here so much. It is a blessing to cook chapatti on a fire in a mud walled kitchen and feel so at home and a blessing that God has given me friends over here that can look past the differences in colour and background that we have and develop a genuine relationship (as well as assist me in my socialisation process!)

Farming = Hard Work

When I was in primary school first I wanted to be a missionary and then I changed my mind and wanted to be a farmer. Funny how things turn out, I remember the day I realised I was a missionary here - it's not like I set out to be one, I just kind of fell into it when I fell in love with Tanzania and God hooked me up from there.

One day I was making bread from scratch or something else typically so missionary and I realised that I actually was a missionary, perhaps not the paddling down crocodile infested waters to some unreached cannibalistic tribe but more your garden variety working for God and depending on Him to prompt others to support you in this work.

Then the other day I realised that I am living out my second dream of being a farmer. Gody (my fiancee) and I bought two acres of land out in the village last year and as the rains have now set upon us we decided to do what all villagers do - plant maize. Last weekend saw us out in the field hoeing up the ground in preparation for the planting. Being in an organisation that promotes specific biblical farming principles known as 'Farming God's Way' meant that we couldn't just join the rest of the village and have cows do the majority of the work, we must get out there and in order to not disturb the soil so much we had to hoe up every hole and put into it some cow manure and ashes by hand. This proved to be very hard work and took most of the day by the end of which I had a sore back, sore hands and bleeding knuckles! Farming really is hard work! And to tell the truth, we are only doing 1/8 of an acre in this method and farming in the usual way for the rest of the land so that we can witness (along with the rest of the community) the difference that it makes.

I have so much respect for the Tanzanians who farm their land, year in, year out and depend almost entirely on the rains to be good so that they are able to feed their family for another year. Let's pray that the rains this year are good and that families are able to harvest abundantly from the seed they have sown. Lets also pray that they become more and more open to principles of farming that will enrich the soil and the harvest for generations to come.

Proverbs 14:23 "In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only to poverty."

College Life

It’s been all go since college opened in June 2012 and our new students are finding out what college life here is really like! There are only five of them but they love to dicsuss things and ask questions so it sometimes seems like I have a full class J They have been immersed in the school classrooms, starting first with Maths and building up to now teaching English, Science, Social Studies and Devotions classes. They often only observe their mentor teachers for two lessons and then start to take over the teaching which is a  big step for them but we think that the best way to learn how to teach is to do it!

I have had fun recently teaching my favourite subject  Science, and as the teachers basically have to learn all the content they will be required to teach we have been dissecting rabbits, making sun rainbows, hooking up electrical circuits and exploring other topics. It is great to see my students’ amazement as they learn more and more about this world that God created for us. I just pray that they will use this in their own teaching and pass on their enthusiasm to their own students.